Chapter 4 - Reconciliation

Roadblocks to Relationship

Through Him (Jesus) we may know God truly as Father; through Him, the universal becomes the particular, the imminent becomes the transcendent, the implicit becomes the explicit, always becomes now... It was for this purpose—to open up a way for sinners to know God—that Jesus came among us. —Malcolm Muggeridge*

And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now hath He reconciled. —Colossians 1:21

God became a man to turn creatures into sons... —C. S. Lewis*

If it is true that intimacy is proportional to grief, then certainly the One that fashioned us and knows our "going in and going out" must be brokenhearted.

I am broken (Heb. to shiver or shatter) with their whorish heart, which hath departed from me. —Ezekiel 6:9

Mankind has done its best to shatter all expressions of divine love, severing even diplomatic relations with God. Does this shut the door forever on the God-man relationship? Does so skilled a craftsman exist that can sift through the debris of a relationship that once was and visualize the beauty of its original form?

The human situation, although tragic, is not really that complex. In fact we may summarize it as follows:

  1. Man does not like God or even want to know Him.
  2. But man needs God for sustenance and optimum fulfillment.
  3. God loves man deeply and wants the best for him.
  4. He therefore attempts to win man back to Himself.

Footnotes

Back | * Malcolm Muggeridge, Jesus The Man Who Lives (Fontana), p. 16.
Back | * C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (Macmillan), p. 182.

Winning Man Back

The phrase "winning man back" perhaps betrays the fact that people are, in a sense, lost property. They are rebels on a rampage, but even a rebel belongs to somebody. Try as he may, one cannot efface the unmistakable markings of a being made in God's image. He has, in a sense, "stolen" his life from God and given it to moral harlotry. He has left the One who made him. He has left the home where he belongs.

Malcolm Muggeridge, long Britain's thorniest and most eloquent conscience, discussed this phenomenon during the fetal stages of his own conversion experience:

I have never wanted a God or feared a God or felt any necessity to invent one. Unfortunately, I am driven to the conclusion that God wants me. [1]

Footnote

1. Malcolm Muggeridge, Jesus Rediscovered (Family library), p. 45.

God's Tasks

It is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to appreciate a solution without an understanding of the problem. To oversimplify the problems God faced in restoring a ruptured God—man relationship (reconciliation)* is to face the prospect of missing the full impact of His solution (redemption). In order for God and man to once again enjoy a mutual, loving, happy relationship, several obstacles need to be overcome. We'll take a preliminary look at the various problems in order.

First, the one God loved happened to be a criminal on death row, thus making God's initial order of business to find a way...

  1. To remove the just consequence of death from a law violator He loves. [the governmental problem] The second problem was that man, by virtue of his moral drift, lost his concept of God. He didn't know what God was like or what He thought. God, therefore, in order to restore a mutually happy relationship needed to...
  2. Reveal Himself to man. [the personal problem] Thirdly, the problem of man's pride. He had been away from God so long he had lost all perspective regarding to his own importance and ability. He was actually under the impression that life revolved around him. Because there could be no meaningful relationship as long as man had this self-centered opinion, it became necessary for God to...
  3. Reveal man to himself. [the hypocritical problem] Once this was done, man' moved back into fellowship, with a complete pardon in hand and the renewed ability to see God and himself. Yet one problem still remained. In order to induce man to terminate his love affair with sin and to prevent the new relationship from reverting to its prior state God had to find the right formula to ...
  4. Maintain the restored relationship by establishing a powerful sin-deterrent barrier. [the motivational problem] This is part of reconciliation. If and when God found a solution to these problems, the tender love relationship originally intended between God and man, and temporarily enjoyed in Eden, would once again flourish. It is very important at this stage to reiterate that there were many things to be accomplished by the atonement. A solution to just one or two of the above problems would not have been adequate. Many theories on the atonement deal with only one or another of the various problems of reconciliation; and while they may deal correctly with that particular aspect, they nevertheless fall into error by not embracing the full design of God in the atonement. The moral influence theory (Socinian), for example, while dealing with the problem of maintaining a restored relationship, does not adequately address God's governmental problems in the matter of reconciliation.

While any correct, biblical explanation as to the nature of the atonement will include a solution to several objectives, God's design is often such that many ends are accomplished by a solitary action. God did not generate light, for example, only that we might see. While it is true that without light we would be totally incapable of viewing our surroundings, there are, as Albert Barnes notes, "numerous other ends known to us, and perhaps many which are unknown, that were equally contemplated in its creation." [2] It is directly responsible for color, warmth and time, as well as being indispensable in the development of agriculture. Many ends, one solution.

Keeping all this in mind, we will now examine in more detail the four major difficulties God faced in His effort to restore the God—man relationship.

Footnote

Back | * To reconcile means to restore to favor, adjust our differences, cause one thing to cease and another to take its place. The reconciliation outlined in the Bible is two-fold: 1.) between man and God and 2.) between man and man (see 2 Corinthians 5:18-20)
Back | 2. Albert Barnes, The Atonement (Bethany Fellowship), p. 239..

God's Lion's Den - The Governmental Problem

Several thousand years ago an incident occurred in the Persian empire revealing a king's dilemma. The king was Darius the Great, whose kingdom extended over much of the civilized-world at that time. The administration of the kingdom was handled by a hierarchy of 120 princes who in turn answered to three presidents, of which Daniel was chief. The empire was plagued with political infighting spurred by jealousy, a malady which often accompanies power. Because of Daniel's wise and conscientious leadership, he gained the royal preference, which generated two attitudes in the ranks of Daniel's fellow administrators. The first was spite, in that Daniel was preferred, and the second was a sense of difficulty, because it was not easy to ensnare a faithful and conscientious man. Finally these evil governors enticed Darius to sign a decree which in essence stated that no one in the kingdom was to petition any man or god other than the king for thirty days. The sanction for disobedience was the lion's den and the decree would stand firm "according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not." The stage was now set for the downfall of Daniel, the Jew who prayed regularly to the God of Israel.

Daniel's enemies wasted no time in approaching Darius with the reports of their spies. Suddenly the powerful monarch of the Persian empire found himself bound and rendered helpless by the words of his own mouth.

Then they answered and spoke before the king, "Daniel who is one of the exiles from Judah, pays no attention to you, O King, or to the injunction which you signed, but keeps making his petition three times a day," Then, as soon as the king heard this statement, he was deeply distressed and set his mind on delivering Daniel; and even until sunset he kept exerting himself to rescue him. —Daniel 6:13-14 (NASB)

Darius found himself in the middle of the same governmental dilemma God faced with man. How does a government balance justice and mercy and wisely dispense their consequences for the good of society? The purpose of the laws and courts of our land is justice, not mercy. Every just penalty the lawbreaker pays strengthens moral government; almost every mercy he receives weakens justice, unless government finds a method of blending mercy and justice. Only the gospel can reconcile the two concepts without damaging or misusing one or the other. Had Darius been able to figure out the answer to his dilemma, he would have had to go to the lion's den for Daniel. He loved Daniel, but not that much.

How would you feel if you turned on your radio and heard the news commentator announce that the President of the United States had just issued a blanket pardon to all of America's prison inmates? When the prison doors swung open, what message would be written across the face of each prisoner? "You can break the law and get away with it!" Thus, what happens to the law? What happens to the integrity of the lawgiver?

God could never sacrifice the welfare of His government in such a manner. Knowing full well that law without consequences is merely advice, He had to find a viable way to demonstrate to every moral being His respect for the law. Compromise on an issue of such immense importance was simply out of the question. God would remain just and righteous in His solemn responsibility to hold the moral fabric of His kingdom intact.

An expansion of God's governmental problem (how to remove the just consequence of death from a law violator whom he loves) reveals the following dilemma:

  1. Man had sinned, violating God's moral law.
  2. The consequence of this violation was death.
  3. Yet God loved his creation and did not want to see him die.

His problem was to find a way to:

  1. uphold His law,
  2. show His hatred for sin,
  3. set the man He loved free without encouraging others to sin.

Grief and Wrath - The Personal Problem

In order for humanity to be reconciled to God, it is necessary to know God. We obviously cannot be joined to someone we do not know. We need to know what his character is like, how he is disposed toward us, and how he feels concerning sin. We must further take time to study God's love memos dealing with his thoughts and attitudes or be destined as a result of our moral drift to misinterpret Him entirely.

An earlier chapter mentioned the profound alteration which took place in Adam's heart following his sin. Adam’s new desire to conceal himself from God indicated that he believed that God, also, had changed. This very concept has carried on throughout the entire race of rebellious men and women. They imagine a God of wrath filled with a desire for vindication. They wonder if perhaps the wrath of God kindled by their sin may not be, at least partially, appeased by gifts or by suffering. The tragic spectacle of men worshiping God from fear is heightened by pitiful rituals of self inflicted torment. The worldwide hope is that God will be soothed as He watches the sinner suffer. P. P. Waldenstrom in his book, Be Ye Reconciled to God, states:

Many dear children of God view this as the very essence of Christ's work. They think they never can escape the wrath of God, unless it has been poured out upon someone else in their stead. In their opinion, the chief significance of Christ is that He be a shelter to shield against God or, so to speak, a lightning rod for His wrath, in order that they may feel safe before Him.[3]

Isaiah Watts’ hymn highlights this misconception:

Rich were the drops of Jesus’ blood
That calm’d his frowning face,
That sprinkled o’er the burning throne
And turn’d the wrath to grace.

Thy hands, dear Jesus, were not arm’d
With a revenging rod;
No hard commission to perform,—
The vengeance of a God.
But all was mercy, all was mild,
And wrath forsook the throne,
When Christ on the kind errand came
And brought salvation down.

 

As Albert Barnes rightly observes, “In such language as this, while something may be set down to mere poetry and to the overflowing emotions of gratitude to the Saviour for the part which he has performed in the work of redemption, it is undoubtedly implied, by the fair interpretation of the language, that a change has been produced in God by the work of the atonement; that in some way a Being before stem, severe, and angry has been made mild, forgiving and kind.”[4]

This serves to illustrate the tremendous need to discuss God's attitude and approach in the process of reconciliation. Christians have grasped hold of scriptures pertaining to God's wrath and, in the midst of their theorizing, missed an extremely important point. It was not God who needed to be reconciled to man, but it was man who needed to be reconciled to God. God's disposition of love toward man has never changed; it has not been diminished by the “fall” or any other subsequent event. There is, in fact, no sin which man could commit capable of severing God's love. There is nothing one can do to make God stop loving. God hates sin but not people. The love of God never needed to be restored by propitiation, because it was never lost. The atonement could not have changed God, for He tells us plainly that His character is unchanging (James 1:17).

The essential idea in the atonement is, not that God was originally stern and inexorable and that he has been made mild and merciful by the atonement, but that the atonement itself has its foundation in his willingness to pardon; not that he has been made benevolent by the atonement, but that he was originally so disposed to show mercy that he was willing to stoop to any sacrifice but that of truth and justice in order that he might show his willingness to pardon the guilty. He gave his Son to die, not that he might be bought over to love, but as the expression of love. [5]

When the Bible speaks of the wrath of God, to what does it refer? Everywhere the object of God's wrath is described as sin and unrighteousness. This is a hatred that will never be appeased or changed. Christ's death in no way affected the righteous wrath of God toward sin. How would the universe survive if God should cease to hate sin? The Bible also speaks of a “wrath to come” (Luke 3:7) Man's preparations for that day are also included in Scripture:

But, after thy hardness and impenitent heart, treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God. —Romans 2:5

The first time the word wrath appears here, it may be interpreted to read guilt. The second time it appears as the painful duty of a righteous God. It is the consequences levied against unrepentant sinners. We have already seen the incredible grief that sin brings to God, and the execution of judgment brings Him even less comfort. God pleads with men to change their hearts so He can withhold judgment.

Say to them, As I live, says the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn back, turn back from your evil ways; for why will you die; O house of Israel? —Ezekiel 33:11 (RSV)

For He does not afflict willingly, or grieve the sons of men. —Lamentations 3:33 (NASB)

Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool. If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land: but if ye refuse and rebel, ye shall be devoured with the sword: for the mouth of the Lord hath spoken it. —Isaiah 1:18-20

We can clearly see that it is not God’s desire to see judgment and if we, like Nineveh, will be willing to repent then we will find “a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, and One who, relents concerning calamity” (Jonah 4:2).

On the other hand, if we staunchly refuse God's offer to “reason together,” there will eventually come a time when God is regretfully conscious that the means at His disposal to secure man's obedience have been exhausted. It is at this moment that God's grief reaches a climax, for He knows that for the highest good of all involved He must judge the unrepentant offender. There is a song on a children’s album that expresses this point beautifully, about Noah entering the ark and God's subsequent judgment of wickedness on earth:

But as the Lord was speaking, He then began to cry. He wept and wept for 40 days. He wept 40 nights. Though it had never rained before in all the earth's long years, now up the ark began to rise upon God's tears. [6]

Footnotes

Back | 3. P. P. Walden Strom, Be Ye Reconciled to God (Men for Missions), p. 3.
Back | 4. Albert Barnes, The Atonement (Bethany Fellowship), p. 220-221.
Back | 5. Ibid., p. 220-221..
Back | 6. Agape/and (Candle Company Music)

Two Types of Justice

We often hear the statement, “God is a God of love but He is also a God of justice.” What is wrong with this statement is the obvious error that it equates God's justice with all that is negative. It makes God's justice appear as the inverse of His love. God's justice, on the contrary, is a product or an attribute of His love. It is not and will never be in any way divorced from His benevolence.

It must be remembered that the primary function of law is to secure the happiness and well-being of any given society. Laws are never intended as ends in themselves, but as means

An effectual substitute for the normal execution of the penalty for lawbreaking is what King Darius labored earnestly but failed to find. God, on the other hand, was able to provide an adequate substitute and satisfy the demands of public justice. An exception would be made and a pardon granted. The biblical word for this substitution is atonement. God's solution to His "lion's den" problem was the governmental substitution of the sufferings of Christ for the punishment of sinners.

Retributive Justice Public Justice
Looks calculatingly at every individual's situation and exacts strictly in accordance with the deed. The style is “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth” There is no mercy and no pardon shown where retributive justice is concerned. Most of the time retributive justice cannot be strictly satisfied. Is basically concerned with the overall interests of the public. Justice is administered with the highest good of those involved as its end. Penalties are executed unless something else is done that will be equally effective in securing the public interests. Public justice regards the spirit of the law instead of the letter of the law.
Forgiveness: Never granted Forgiveness: Permissible—if I done wisely

It is crucial to our discussion of reconciliation that we do not confuse these two types of justice.. If this does occur it will thoroughly confound our understanding of the nature of forgiveness.

The Nature of Forgiveness

The assertion that Jesus paid for our sins has caused confusion within the body of Christ. It is casually accepted that our salvation hinges on a legal transfer of some sort between two members of the Trinity-Jesus and His Father. This has become the nearly unanimous answer to the question, “Who did Christ pay?” If Christ indeed paid the Father for sin then it was retributive justice that was served and not public justice. We should remember that under retributive justice no forgiveness is possible. Forgiveness, correctly defined, is the relaxation of a legitimate claim. According to this definition God could not have, as one hymn puts it, “paid the debt and forgave Me all my sin.”

Let me illustrate: If I borrow one hundred dollars on the condition that it be repaid at a later date, the lender has a legitimate claim. But when I return the money, the claim against me is not relaxed but fulfilled. No forgiveness takes place whatsoever. Taking the illustration one step further, let’s assume that after borrowing the hundred dollars, I find for some reason that I am unable to repay my debt. A good friend of mine, however, is good enough to offer one hundred dollars in my stead. Again we have the same result. The claim against me has not been relaxed but fulfilled, and similarly no forgiveness whatsoever takes place. The Bible teaching on the nature of forgiveness is seen in one of Jesus’ parables:

For this reason the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a certain king who wished to settle accounts with his slaves. And when he had begun to settle them, there was brought to him one who owed him ten thousand talents. But since he did not have the means to repay, his lord commanded him to be sold, along with his wife and children and all that he had, and repayment to be made. The slave therefore falling down, prostrated himself before him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will repay you everything.’ And the lord of that slave felt compassion and released him and forgave him the debt. —Matthew 18:23-27 (NASB)

The sole reason for the slave’s release was his lord’s compassion. Forgiveness in this parable is certainly the relaxation of a legitimate claim. No third party intervened, no bargain was made, the debtor was simply released from his debt. It is possible to receive payment on a claim, and it is permissible to forgive a claim, but you cannot do both! The Bible portrays a God who is completely desirous and willing to forgive sin without receiving any payment to satisfy a vindictive urge.

Elaborating on the subject, Dr. Nathan Beman states,

“The existence of the attribute of mercy was, like God Himself, eternal; and no new and super added motive was necessary in order to elicit this attribute in action. The atonement was operated not as a bribe, or reward, or original cause, influencing the divine feelings; nor as a moral persuasive to the exercise of compassions hitherto unfelt; but it opened a channel in which existing affections might freely flow; and, at the same time, it rendered the pardon and salvation of the sinner consistent with every principle of the divine government and every attribute of the divine nature. In one word, the atonement was not the procuring cause of mercy, but it was the mode in which mercy was to find for itself an illustrious expression in the system of the Gospel.”[7]

One school of thought states that the atonement totally satisfied retributive justice (the so called satisfaction doctrine). If this is true, then we face the prospect of a divided Trinity, the second Person of the Trinity being more loving that the first! Biblical scholar Gustaf Aulen shares Augustine's early concern over this concept.

…He seems to intend a pointed rejection of any such idea. He denies that God the Father can be in any way ‘placated’ by the Son's death; for in that case there would be a difference of some kind, even a conflict, between the Father and the Son: but that is unthinkable, for between the Father and the Son there is always the most perfect harmony.[8]

The strongest implication of this doctrine, however, ought to make us shudder. If God demands repayment for what sin was done to Him—if He requires full, vindictive satisfaction before releasing His claim—we find ourselves facing the conclusion that there is no loving moral Being in the universe! Fortunately this is not the case. The Bible explains God's purposes in the death of Christ.

Being justified as a gift by His grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus; whom God displayed publicly as a propitiation in His blood through faith. This was to demonstrate His righteousness, because in the forbearance of God He passed over the sins previously committed; for the demonstration, I say, of His righteousness at the present time, that He might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus. —Romans 3:24-26 (NASB)

Jesus’ death was a public demonstration. This type of public demonstration was the substitute God needed in order to satisfy public justice, since public justice did allow for pardon. This public demonstration of the sufferings of Christ solved God’s governmental problem by revealing the Lawgiver as just and wise in dispensing with the penalty. At the same time, it allowed Him to do what His heart really wanted to do—forgive the offender He loved.

Footnotes

Back | 7. Nathan Beman, The Atonement In Its Relations to God and Man (Newman-1844), p. 35.
Back | 8. Gustaf Aulen, Christus Victor (Macmillan), p. 58..

Virtuous Love

Virtuous, unselfish love is totally foreign to our way of thinking. Robert Ringer gives his advice on how to be a truly “giving” person.

Simple reasoning tells you that you must regard the interests of others in order to obtain your objectives. Fellow human beings represent potential values to you in business or personal relationships, and the rational individual understands that to harvest those values he must be willing to fill certain needs of others. In this way, the most rationally selfish individual is also the most giving person.[9]

Lest this should be construed by some convoluted thought process to be Christian love, Ringer scrapes off all semantic frosting and blurts out,

Don’t do something for the reason that it’s the right thing to do if there’s no benefit to be derived from it.[10]

This dearth of understanding as to the nature of virtuous love is nowhere manifest as openly as in the contemporary evangelistic altar call. The modern-day evangelist may lack theological polish, but the really important ingredient for success comes in another package. He, must be able to sell. We are living in the era of the pragmatic sermon. Don't analyze its moral content, the question is: Does it work? The rookie evangelist may hone his techniques by studiously observing automobile salesmen at their best on late-night television. The next evening salvation is offered as “the deal of a lifetime.” “Ladies and gentlemen, just look at these extras! He comes to you, eagerly waiting to save you from hell and give you? heaven in return. And if that's not enough, consider the fact He brings you, peace and joy for your present enjoyment. Also for your comfort, He will heal your body, your finances, your grades—anything you need is available and at the disposal of those who will but believe.” The final pitch sounds something like this, “You can enjoy all of this at absolutely no extra cost—that's right, no extra cost. And Jesus Christ is the only One who can make your life the envy of your friends, so hurry down the aisle today while the offer lasts!”

From the very beginning, people learn that there is no cost involved in salvation. Jesus is presented to us as our servant, rather than our Lord. All that appeals to our self interests is highlighted so that our reaction to salvation becomes a purely selfish exercise. This is nothing less than a humanistic invasion into Christianity.

When all of our thoughts of salvation center on the question “How do I come out?”, is it surprising that we view God’s role in reconciliation in the same light? Contrary to warped speculation, God was never worried about receiving some personal satisfaction for the hurt that peoples sin had caused Him. God’s love is purely virtuous. It is unselfish, agape love. Out of this mysterious love flows God’s only concern, “How will they come out?”

Footnotes

Back | 9. Robert J. Ringer, Looking Out for #1 (Fawcett Crest), p. 46.
Back | 10. Ibid., P 88.

The Problem of Man's Pride -The Hypocritical Problem

God's ultimate objective in the atonement was not rescuing souls from hell, but the restoration of a ruptured relationship. Jesus came to this earth to “seek and to save that which was lost.” What was lost? The intimate God-man relationship. From what were we lost? We were lost from the truth of God.

All of us like sheep have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way… —Isaiah 53:6 (NASB)

Humanity has left God and in the process has “become vain in (his) imaginations.” Apart from God, men lose all sense of proportion about their own importance. Their subjective and superficial opinions about themselves are grossly inflated. But this is no astonishing revelation; one need only look at the faces of the men and women who surround us exuding arrogance in every conceivable setting. The global megalomania of earthlings must stand out in conspicuous absurdity as the vast host of heavenly beings survey God's handiwork.

How can God relate to man in intimate fellowship when man thinks he's something more than he is? Can reconciliation occur while man is preoccupied with the false opinions he has created? The answer is, of course, no.

If God and man are going to get together, something must humble man so that he is willing to dispense with hypocritical facades. Before reconciliation can occur, we must come to the place where we see ourselves for what we really are.

I say to every man among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment… —Romans 12:3 (NASB)

As blessings tend to increase our concept of our own importance (i.e., salvation, gifts, ministries), God, in order that He not add to our moral delinquency, must humble us in order to bless us. He must reveal us to ourselves.

A Change That Lasts -The Motivational Problem

The Bible tells us that people estranged from God are totally and completely corrupt. It is not a matter of cleaning up this sin or that one. Our whole personality is enslaved. We have involved ourselves in a life of total bondage.

Because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God it does not subject itself to the Law of God, for it is not even able to do so. —Romans 8:7 (NASB)

How do you deal with a lifetime of learned selfishness and its myriad manifestations? How can you maintain a relationship against the magnetism of former, inflamed appetites and habits? The key is the mind. A total change of mind is the necessary objective to be achieved in the process of reconciliation. A transformation simply must take place in our thinking. Summing it up, C. S. Lewis stated, “God became man to turn creatures into sons... for mere improvement is no redemption...”[11]

And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. —Romans 12:2 (NASB)

Footnote

Back | 11. C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (Macmillan), p. 182.

Man has no "Aces"

There is a story in the Old Testament which gives us a glimpse of the amazing role God plays in the process of reconciliation. It is the account of the prophet Hosea.

The Lord said to Hosea, ‘Go, take to yourself a wife of harlotry…’ So he went and took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim, and she conceived and bore him a son. And the Lord said to Him, ‘Name him Jezreel’ …then she conceived again… When she had weaned Lo-ruhama (a daughter), she conceived and gave birth to (another) son. And the Lord said, ‘Name him Lo-ammi’ —Hosea 1:2-9 (NASB)

Later, in a tragic heartrending conversation with his son Jezreel, Hosea offers his lament:

Say ye unto your brethren, Ammi; and to your sisters, Ruhamah. Plead with your mother, plead: for she is not my wife, neither am I her husband: let her therefore put away her whoredoms out of her sight, and her adulteries from between her breasts… For their mother hath played the harlot: she that conceived them hath done shamefully; for she said, I will go after my lovers, that give me my bread and my water, my wool and my flax, mine oil and my drink. Therefore, behold, I will hedge up thy way with thorns and make a wall, that she shall not find her paths. And she shall follow after her lovers, but she shall not overtake them; and she shall seek them but shall not find them… then shall she say, I will go and return to my first husband; for then was it better with me than now. —Hosea 2:1-7

Then said the Lord to me, ‘Go again, love a woman who is loved by her husband, yet an adulteress, even as the Lord loves the sons of Israel, though they turn to other gods…’ So I brought her for myself for fifteen shekels of silver and a homer and a half of barley. Then I said to her, You shall stay with me for many days. You shall not play the harlot, nor shall you have a man; so I will also be toward you.’ —Hosea 3:1-3 (NASB)

You would think that Gomer the adulteress would seek the favor of the husband she has wounded. Doesn't it seem right that the guilty party ought to seek the forgiveness of the innocent? Sadly, the Bible again reveals to us the fact that no man is seeking God. No man is initiating a reconciliation with his God.

As it is written, ‘There is none righteous, not even one; there is none who understands, there is none who seeks for God; all have turned aside; together they have become useless; there is none who does good, there is not even one.’ —Romans 3:10-12 (NASB)

We, like the adulteress, have nothing but our shame. We have no “aces up our sleeves” nothing to attract God to us. The Bible clearly reveals that as long as our ultimate intention is bent on the pursuit of selfishness, all our righteousness is as filthy rags. If only there were some virtues, at least a few alluring qualities to make it easier for God to overlook our liabilities, but there are none.

She forgot me, declares the Lord. ‘Therefore, behold, I will allure her, Bring her into the wilderness, And speak kindly to her.’ —Hosea 2:13-14 (NASB)

This is certainly an amazing display of love, of mercy, and of grace! The powerful God of the universe forms the earth, gathers a handful of newly created soil forms a man and loves him! But the magnificence of the story is that—

The Word became flesh, and dwelt among us… —John 1:14 (NASB)

and

While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us —Romans 5:8

saying

I will call them my people, which were not my people; and her beloved, which was not beloved. —Romans 9:25